♥ If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
♥ Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
♥ Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
♥ Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
♥ Be honest and upfront.
♥ Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on).
♥ Actions speak louder than words.
♥ If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
♥ Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to be with him.
♥ To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next time.
♥ Compromise is a two-way street.
♥ You need time to heal between relationships.
♥ Deal with yourissues before pursuing a new relationship.
♥ When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond to the actions.
♥ Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent.
♥ Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
♥ Lastly, when it's time to let go; let go.
Give it time
2:11 PM
Don't hurry love. You'll just have to wait. She said love don't come easy. It's a game of give and take.
I had my template codes mixed up, and I'm having a hard time fixing them. I'm such an OC when doing this HTML-slash-blog stuff. :|
My stat counter won't work anymore ever since I started adding my clicky code. Then I tried to remove the same code, got another stat counter code in case the old one just expired, and it's still not functioning.
Grrrr..
Tell me if it's working on your browser, will you?
In a deeper sense
11:48 AM
They say time heals all wounds and it takes time to move on.
But time isn't everything. Time won't even erase one painful memory of the past. And the present can;t even undo the damage done.
I tried, I really do. I gave chances and took chances.. and I believe those are enough. Enough.
The pieces didn't just fit the way I wished they would. Sadly, this didn't turn out into what I want this to be.. not even into something better.
:|
ClickClickClick! :)
Thursday, October 16, 2008 8:40 PM
Cooool.
I installed this new script in my site and it's functioning. I'll be able to get more site statistics from now on. :)
You do, you don't
2:11 PM
The first time I won't regret, One look into your eyes and I'll never forget.. But you're not about to jump right into this tonight. Wondering just what to do, every single second in the room with you. I can't talk this over to win you over here tonight.
So open your eyes, don't say goodnight Wondering why, alone tonight... I'll just let it go for you.
I'm letting you down. You are just hiding it so well You're giving me no sign, no interest. You don't really want this, you don't really want this. So right now, are you gonna try to save yourself? I bet you're so sick of hearing it You don't really want this, you don't really want this.
So hard to get, is that what its gonna be? Sitting down not even looking at me. I hope forever I wont remember this tonight. So out the door, gone away.. running so fast through the pouring rain.. Gone forever, so much better here tonight.
I'd throw it all away for you If you took another look you'd be back so soon. All alone, a dark cold night, Wrapped around, you better hold on tight.
/2142
Of blues, pinks, and greens
1:34 PM
I have experienced A LOT this 10 months. I've been through an emotional joyride -- breaking down, regaining my composure, and again, breaking down.. And with those experience, I learned a lot more.
I learned not to rely on anyone, but myself. I learned not to trust too fast. .. and learned not to fully open up myself. ... to at least build walls around me not allowing anyone else to make me nor break me.
I may seem talkative and open, the fact that I have kept my life an open book since I have been blogging about it for ages. But that's all people can get from me. I am good making people see that they've known me enough, but better keeping everything else within me, without anybody knowing.
Oh, I don't think I'm going anywhere..
The thing is, I have been lied to and cheated on.. Of course, I'm always willing to forgive. Well, I have already done my part and forgave. But I won't ever forget. That's why I still don't want to risk anything, just yet. It will take some time to partly regain my trust, as I'm not about to give it wholly again.
As of now, I am not hanging on, nor am I hoping. We're still far to what we're once before. I'm not the same girl anymore.
HandBag Planet
Tuesday, October 14, 2008 11:29 PM
HandBag Planet will be launched this October 15, 2008. It is one site full of trendy and classy bags at an affordable price! In line with their launch, a free handbag is given every hour for 24 hours of the said date.
Want their bags? Click on the link to get a chance to win! There's more, no shipping/handling fees required in claiming of prizes! :)
Close to getting there.
Friday, October 03, 2008 7:16 PM
I am supposed to be studying for Accounting quiz right now. Haha. I just need some time to unwind before really doing my stuff.
A lot of things has happened since my last love-related entry. Gumaganun eh, noh? The guy before is now a part of my past, but we're still good friends and I'm glad. :)
No kidding, really. Apologies have been accepted and issues are finally settled. No more hard feelings and bitterness.
We were close to getting there, given the right chance and time.. but some things aren't really meant to be. And sometimes, good times would suddenly do a 180-degree flip, then turn the whole thing the other way around. I just have to face the harsh reality and let it all go.
Then what comes next?
An old flames comes back.
Just after realizing I was fully over him. Just after feeling right for the very first time, with someone new. Just after thing's didn't really turn out well with my someone new.
Right now, I just have to let everything fall into their places. On their own. I won't assume as I don't want to rush. I don't want to let my passion get the best of me.
We may be close to getting there. Closer. But this time, I want to make it right. :)
►Selle. 19 year-old full-time Accountancy student. Future CPA-lawyer and pastry-chef wannabe.
► Talkative, hyper, loud and yes, sometimes snob. Admits to being moody, bratty and bitchy butonly when forced to. :P
► Loves dancing (even cheerleading, jazz, gymnastics, yoga and the like), Nicholas Sparks novels, get-aways, heart-to-heart and sensible talks with friends, Asian dramas and ABS-CBN Primetime shows (LOL).
► Has this weird study habit of listening to really loud rock music while reading and solving Accounting problems. (Yesss, it IS effective. ;P)
► Adores Audrey Hepburn and has this fascination over everything vintage and European - dear ol' England with its history full of monarchs, hats and corsets, fabulous long bubbly gowns, and just the hiistory itself. :)
► Lastly, Self-confessed wanderlust - adventure-seeker. :) Will go to places to meet people, to discover cultures, to appreciate everything beautiful this world has to offer. ♥
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